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Integrated Healing and Recovery


🛑 Interrupting the Blame Game: The Problem Was Conditioning, Not You
🛑 The Problem Was Conditioning, Not You. As you progress in trauma recovery, clarity brings a unexpected trap: looking back at past mistakes and concluding that you were just "doing life wrong." This conclusion is painful, unjust, and counterproductive to healing. Here is the distinction every survivor needs to internalize: 🧠What you didn’t choose (The Conditioning): Your brain and nervous system were wired to survive an unsafe environment. • Emotional dysregulation =
Melissa Alton
Aug 111 min read
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